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Vow privacy and visibility scopes

Partner-only vows and officiant-only notes stay private — with a plain preview of who sees what.

Some words are meant to be a surprise. RiteBinder lets each block carry a visibility scope, so a partner’s vows are not spoiled and your private notes stay yours.

Partner-only vows: one partner writes their vows and the other cannot see them in the portal. Both reach you, so you can prompt and time them — but neither partner sees the other’s until the day.

Officiant-only notes: staging cues, pronunciation notes, a reminder to pause — visible to you alone, never in anyone’s portal and never printed on a couple’s copy.

Every block shows a plain-language line of who can see it, so there is never a guess. If a block is partner-only, it says so, right there.

When you share a version for approval, RiteBinder respects those scopes — an approval link never reveals a block the reader was not meant to see.

Still stuck? Email help@ritebinder.com and a real person answers, usually within one business day.

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